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Being a female raised by a female as I have gotten older I can see how not having a man around has slowed me down. By that I mean some of those lessons that he was supposed to teach me I missed and in the same turn the lesson that would have been learned through watching them interact with each other needless to say I missed those also. I said all of that to say this...

My generation lacks vital qualities to attract and keep the opposite sex. So that’s where we need each other... Lets rephrase… Continue

When we last spoke I asked a question of the new age woman... now fellas it’s your turn.

How is it that you say you want a no non-sense woman and in the same breath turn her away because she is not submissive enough? Or because with her it’s not always going to be your way with that she might opt for the highway. Whereas it’s acceptable for you to get mad at her for the smallest of things yet it offends you when she gets mad over larger things such as man shit. Man shit: the things that are… Continue

I have had the pleasure to witness in my lifetime two great milestones... the tide of America change into the dreams of my fore fathers and black love with in my family and on a boarder scale.

So my question is this...

We as women say that there no good men left, that is a false statement. There are good men around, but its a matter of weather or not YOU are a good woman. When you meet or even met him will you have the mindset to know it. To know that a man will be a man regardless to you bein… Continue

There comes a time in everyone's life when you must ask yourself... Is it really better to have loved andlosted than never to have loved at all, think about it love can piss you off and if its real good it can take your very soul if it leaves you. But, there is hope because there is always two sides to every coin... love can hold you after a long day listen to your story no matter how trivial. Now ask yourself how will you recognize it... The answer is simple, when he/she is the first thing you… Continue

Now as a man and woman, life will offer many paths, each one has a cause and affect. The things you do cannot always be taken back, cleaned-up or forgotten. As you mettle through life, always respect yourself, (if you don't, no one else needs too). Show respect to those who have and have not. Always show respect to those older. Stand up for what you believe! Never settle for anything, just to say you have something. Be fair with everyone, always pray, because prayer can change many thing

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